{"id":1039,"date":"2021-10-14T14:46:33","date_gmt":"2021-10-14T13:46:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/uniofglos.blog\/chaplaincy\/?p=1039"},"modified":"2021-10-14T14:46:33","modified_gmt":"2021-10-14T13:46:33","slug":"the-look-of-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites.glos.ac.uk\/chaplaincy\/2021\/10\/14\/the-look-of-love\/","title":{"rendered":"The look of love"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Here\u2019s the reading that we had at today\u2019s communion service, from Mark\u2019s Gospel\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>As Jesus was setting out on a journey, a man ran up and knelt before him, and asked him, \u2018Good Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life?\u2019<\/p><p>Jesus said to him, \u2018Why do you call me good? No one is good but God alone. You know the commandments: \u201cYou shall not murder; You shall not commit adultery; You shall not steal; You shall not bear false witness; You shall not defraud; Honour your father and mother.\u201d\u2019<\/p><p>He said to him, \u2018Teacher, I have kept all these since my youth.\u2019 Jesus, looking at him, loved him and said, \u2018You lack one thing; go, sell what you own, and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; then come, follow me.\u2019<\/p><p>When he heard this, he was shocked and went away grieving, for he had many possessions.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>I listened to that reading on Sunday and the words which struck me especially were \u2018Jesus, looking at him, loved him\u2019. It was partly because the person reading, a lovely retired priest called John, entered deeply into the passage as he read it, and read it with great meaning &#8211; and when he read those words, his voice broke a little as he said \u2018loved\u2019. He really felt the depth of that love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don\u2019t think there\u2019s any other encounter in the gospels which is described in this way. Jesus acts out of love and compassion with everyone he meets, but here Luke is pointing to something particular.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jesus sees the longing that this man has to learn from him, and to find \u2018eternal life\u2019 &#8211; life in all its fulness. And he responds with his own longing. It might sound like what he says to the man is a harsh demand &#8211; go and sell everything you own. But, seeing the way the man\u2019s heart is being opened to God, he longs for his heart to be so fully opened he can receive all that God has for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I sang a song last night which included these lines:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Come leave what you cling to, lay down what you clutch, and find, with hands empty, that hearts can hold much.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Jesus sees that this man is still clinging to a lot, and that is stopping him really receive &#8211; he is only prepared to go so far.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This passage might lead into theoretical questions about whether Christians are all called to sell everything, and whether it is wrong to be a rich Christian. But maybe the more fruitful way to approach it is to allow ourselves to be in the place of the rich man.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What is it that we cling to? What stops us fully receiving what God has for us? What are we being called to let go of?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For myself, I recognise the occasional pull towards new, shiny things that will apparently transform my life. Thinking about those things &#8211; researching them &#8211; buying them &#8211; all of that can take my attention away from the gifts that are offered to me every day in my life now &#8211; the gift of each moment, the gift of the people I meet, the gift of the beautiful world around me, the gift of the love and grace of God.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Or sometimes I might find myself fantasising about where I might find the perfect house to retire to &#8211; and even going on Right Move &#8211; although actually I don\u2019t need to think about that for years yet. Researching an unreal possibility in a way which blocks me fully engaging with life now, or being open to the future God has for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We will all have our own temptations. What this passage offers is a challenge which does not come out of duty, or a dry puritanism, but out of love, and the desire of Jesus to give us more than we can possibly imagine. Jo shared these words at Tuesday\u2019s Morning Prayer:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Spirit of Freedom, take from us the cluttering of things, the temptation to dominate by the power of money, the craving for comfort.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lead us through the narrow gate of constriction, that we may let go of possessions, and come to a place of simplicity and spaciousness, of glad conviviality and freedom.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Close our eyes and imagine Jesus, standing before you, looking at you, and loving you. He sees the longing in your heart &#8211; the longing to be fully open to him.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>He sees too the ways in which you are still closed &#8211; the possessions and ways of thinking that we cling to. You might want to hold your hands with your fingers clenched\u2026.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>What is it that you find it difficult to let go of? Where is Jesus offering you release? As you say this prayer, you may like to slowly open your hands\u2026<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Lord, free us from all that we hold onto, from all that holds us. Help us to see all that stops us fully receiving from you. 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